On Deciphering Informal Medical Language, from an “Aspie” Point of View

Confusion

Confusion

A major challenge for many Aspies (an informal name many of those with Asperger’s use for ourselves) is communication with the larger, non-Aspie population. Frustration and anger are common reactions to this challenge — sometimes from both sides. The reasons for this are known: these two parts of the population use language quite differently. Aspies tend to use and interpret language in absolute, literal terms, to a point that seems odd to most. Non-Aspies, by contrast, are often more flexible with use of language, and are (somehow) able to convey ideas between themselves using words which mean the exact opposite of their literal meaning. (Several examples will follow.) This difference is all that is required to explain why Aspies and non-Aspies often have trouble communicating with each other.

Just as with most people, Aspies are quite different from each other, but we also have some traits in common. For example, an intense urge to study and analyze some esoteric subject, which few others care about, is common — but the identity of that subject, or subjects, varies widely from one Aspie to another. My special interests all involve puzzles; I enjoy trying to figure out mathematical, scientific, and linguistic problems, in particular. Another Aspie might share none of those interests, but might be able to rattle off, say, hundreds of sports statistics, as easily as I can list the names of dozens of polyhedra. The existence of these “special interests,” as they are known, is (nearly?) universal among Aspies, but the topic of these special interests is not. For example, fewer than 1% of the Aspie population shares my obsession with polyhedra — a fact I know because the world’s most-focused “polyhedra people” are so uncommon that we have established many lines of communication between each other, enabling the formation of a rough estimate of this population. My estimate is ~300 people, worldwide. Even if I am off by a factor of ten, that simply isn’t nearly as many people as 1/10th of 1% of the world’s rapidly-growing Aspie population.

In my experience, medical terminology, in particular, has provided large numbers of baffling puzzles over the years. When talking to medically-trained professionals, I always let them know I am a teacher of science and mathematics. This lets them know that they need not hold back with medical jargon, which has a large overlap with scientific and mathematical jargon. I can understand it fairly well, and, when an unfamiliar term is used, I simply ask for a definition. When I need to, I take notes. If medical instructions are not clear, precise, literal, and detailed, people can die as a result. For this reason, such instructions generally are written in a precise, literal form of English which is a beter match for “Aspiespeak” than what we typically hear from non-Aspies.

On the other hand, when I speak to non-Aspies about medical subjects, I often get quite confused, and I suspect this happens with many other Aspies, as well. Examples follow.

“Nerve pills” — As someone who takes prescribed medication for the relief of anxiety (which is the way a doctor or pharmacist would likely phrase it), I have occasionally been asked if I might benefit from taking a “nerve pill.” Before remembering the translation of this term, I always think, and sometimes say, something along these lines: “I’m already nervous. Why would I take a pill to make me more nervous?” It’s the implied, omitted parts of the phrase, of course, that contribute to my confusion. As it is, this practice makes me wonder why we don’t call deodorant “oderant” instead, a term coined by Jerry Seinfeld, since that would make equally little sense, but would at least be consistent.

The related phrase “pain pills” elicits a similar response from me. Due to a fall over twenty years ago, I already hurt, and, sometimes, I need something that relieves pain — but I never need anything to cause more pain! Fortunately, the people I actually see for such medication, when it is needed, are physicians and pharmacists, and they use literal, precise terms for such medication. They also know the risks of such medication, and conversations with such people are important for anyone needing such medication, for obvious reasons: such medications should only be used in ways consistent with advice from doctors and pharmacists. Patients cannot obtain such advice without having honest conversations with these knowledgeable professionals.

The most confusing informal medical term like this which I hear, though, is the term “crazy pills.” I don’t hide the fact that I obtain professional help for mental health issues, and explained my reasons for this openness here. Most of those who do seek treatment for mental health problems, though, are not Aspies, and so it is quite common to hear such treatment, in the form of medication, referred to by this confusing term, which I must admit I intensely dislike. For one thing, the word “crazy” is not one to use lightly, due to the fact that it has been used, historically, to stigmatize those who need help maintaining or restoring mental health. For another, the literal meaning of “crazy pills” is the exact opposite of its in-use meaning.

The term I use to replace “crazy pills,” in my own speech, is “sanity pills.” Sanity is, after all, my preferred state, and that is the reason the psychiatry-related category on this blog is named “Mental Health,” not “Mental Illness.” Reminders that mental health is the goal are helpful; the opposite focus is not.

Puzzles like this (figuring out non-literal terms used by non-Aspies) are not my favorite kind; in fact, I don’t enjoy them at all, for little or no logic is involved, and any pattern which might help me learn these things more easily has, so far, eluded me. Non-Aspies seem to just intuitively “know” what such phrases mean, as if they got a memo which was deliberately withheld from Aspies — and that is, for me (and many of us), both baffling, and irritating. Can I understand these things? Yes, with difficulty — I have to figure them out, step by step, each time, due to the fact that they do not make logical, literal sense, and thus do not come naturally to me. In fact, studying calculus was easier than understanding these common phrases which nearly everyone else just seems to somehow “know,” as if the knowledge was sent to them telepathically, but deliberately withheld from me, for reasons unknown.

For a fictional depiction of Aspie/non-Aspie confusion, this clip from Star Trek: The Next Generation, while not medically-oriented, does illustrate this commuication-problem in a humorous fashion. When the character of Data was created, some “Aspie” characteristics were deliberately included, just as they were for Mr. Spock, his predecessor. Some Aspies have criticized the Star Trek franchise for these practices, but I, personally, think they have been helpful, in that they use humor to try to bridge the currently-existing comprehension-gap. This gap is not helpful, so anything that narrows it is something I like.

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8 Responses to On Deciphering Informal Medical Language, from an “Aspie” Point of View

  1. Reblogged this on Conversations I Wish I Had and commented:
    Loved this description. Great job on trying to get people to understand the Asperger condition.

    All the best 🙂

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  2. good post.. . good use of the TNG example, and yet that example brings up an issue that has bugged me… with Data’s memory capacity, 23 or so years in Starfleet by that point, imprinted memories from the colonists on the world where he was created, and speed of absorbing and analyzing information, there is no excuse for him not having in memory the meanings for all idiomatic phrases and his ability to communicate so effectively in all other situations is regularly thrown own when the writers wanted to toss in some humor by having him suddenly be unable to use the correct informal language… the inconsistency is annoying, but it does not make the example you chose to use any less valid

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  3. If it helps, I am one of that part of earth population (estimated at 300 people), that are both Aspie and love polyihedra.

    @John R. Johnson. The problem with Aspies is NOT the fact they are unable to learn all possible common phrases and their possible meanings. The problem is that exactly the same phrase can have a dozen of different and conflicting meanings, that non-Aspies can distinct from social context rather than from words. Aspies lack that sensibility of social context and fail to assign the right meaning from all possible ones.

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    • I just re-read JRJ’s comment, and it looks to me like he was talking about part of the writing of Star Trek: The Next Generation — that part related to Data — not real-world Aspie human beings. I’ve known him for years, off-line, as well as on-line, and I assure you that he understands Asperger’s far better than at least 99% of the general population.

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  4. Having my own Aspie tendencies, I agree with exactly what Alexandru was saying about how Aspies handle informal language.

    And Robert is correct as to what my issue was. Any my taking issue with the inconsistency in how Data was written is likely due to my own traits with regard to a need for consistency and precision.

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  5. My apologies to John R. Johnson.
    I just wanted to say, there are more chances for a person who likes polyhedra to this level to be Aspie than to be NT.

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    • I agree. To get into a field as sub-sub-sub-specialized as polyhedra and other polytopes, and stay in it for years, demonstrates obsessive behavior and thinking about a subject that most people find utterly uninteresting — which describes A.S. “special interests” perfectly. I can’t make a blanket statement that all who are fascinated with polyhedra are Aspies, but I do think the Venn diagram bubbles for “polyhedra people” and “Aspies” would at least have a large region of overlap, even if the P.P. set is not entirely a subset of the (much, much larger) A.S. set.

      Since this same statement can be made for lots of other highly specialized fields, it makes sense to expect that a large portion of cutting-edge work, in multiple areas, is being done by Aspies. However, I’m deliberately phrasing that as a hypothesis, not a conclusion, for one simple reason: I haven’t tested it yet. To accept a statement as valid without evidence is not in my nature, and it needs to be replicable evidence, of course. The two methods that reach me most effectively are mathematical proof, and the scientific method. It is no coincidence that these are the two fields in which I have done most of my teaching.

      I’m also like this outside my teaching fields. Will I take advice from, say, medical doctors? Yes — after they have explained everything involved to my satisfaction, often with me taking notes, as if I’m in class. Doctors unwilling to do that were quickly replaced by other doctors, long ago. Finding doctors who are willing to do this, though, isn’t difficult at all, and I’m pretty sure I know why: a patient who actually pays attention to, and heeds, medical advice, carefully, to the best of his or her ability, is a refreshing change for most doctors, Aspie or not.

      Related: on my Facebook right now, I’m being urged to accept concepts from Calculus II without taking the time to understand them first . . . and that, of course, is not going to happen. The numerous Aspies who have read that conversation, and know me, already know that such efforts are futile, and know exactly why. I think my doctors also like knowing that they can safely omit the usual “finish the entire round of antibiotics” speech with me, on those occasions when I need such a prescription. If a doctor ever asked me to explain the reasons for this to them, as a check for understanding, my reply would be simple: “Because evolution happens.”

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